the conspiracy

12:12 AM

It's been a while since I blogged. I think I should resuscitate this lifeless blog. Today I'm gonna talk about this equation:
Guys' effort = inversely proportional to length of relationship

Sometimes I wonder if it's a conspiracy. Guy does ultra sweet and jaw-dropping things before he gets together with a girl. After getting together with the girl, his effort in surprising the girl/doing sweet stuff for her drops exponentially. When the girl nags at him, he falls back on the majorly sweet things that he did in the past. The girl feels bad and wonders if she's too demanding. The guy gets away again. Score!

Yep, I'm sure of it, now that I have articulated it. It IS a conspiracy.

Actually, girls don't need guys to do MAJORLY sweet things during courtship. The importance is consistency, and well, the occasional BAM! thing. My boyfriend is awesome. I just wish he was a little more consistent in little things, like making our monthly scrapbooks and updating our blog. Those were things he promised to do. But as time goes by.. I guess one just forgets / gets overwhelmed by work. Yeah, I know I can't blame him for the latter reason.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, if girls can be consistent in being sweet to their guy, why can't guys do the same for their girls? Guys, if Wensi can do it, so can you! ^^

It's 4 days after Valentine's Day now, but how about let's make every day Valentine's Day (minus the flowers and gifts)? Celebrate your love every day. Do what you promised to do. Love each other. Afterall, true love is really hard to find. I know I'm gonna hold on to him like a dog holds on to his bone. woof. HAHAHA.