what does it take?
8:45 PM
feelings? or effort?
This conversation stems from a discussion with Bernard during a short car ride.
He says that in a relationship, you can't have "the feeling" every day. There will be one of those days where you just don't have the feeling of love for your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Therefore, instead of depending on feelings, a relationship is sustained by effort. You can't have the feeling forever.
It's okay to feel lazy to do something for him/her once in a while... But if you realise that you get lazy for too long/too often, it's the end of the road. ):
And what does it take for two people to be together? I really don't have a clue. Should it be effortless? Or should it be difficult. I always thought it would be effortless.